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Issue Number: Volume V No. 12.
Publisher: Kituku & Associates
Date of Issue: December 2006. © 2006—Overcoming Buffaloes in Our Lives.
All Rights Reserved. |
An informative and captivating FREE electronic newsletter
designed to equip you with powerful tools and timely information
to achieve new heights in your professional and personal life. |
WWW.KITUKU.COM (208) 376-8724 or
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My observations, for the last ten years, on
what resources are available for personal and professional
growth, and how people use them have led to one key
conclusion. To a great extend, people don’t succeed because
they ignore the most available and accessible resource—other
people’s experience.
Name any human enterprise and chances are that someone has
done something on it. Whatever your life’s endeavor is, there
is somebody with knowledge or experience, and mostly likely
both, that you can use immediately and start living the life
you have envisioned. The use, expounding on existing knowledge
and experience is the shortest and least bumpy path to your
goals.
A few months ago, I wrote about how Lewis and Clark benefitted
from a resource, Sacajawea, that they had not planned on when
the left for the uncharted west. They benefited from her
experience. How many doctors, engineers, lawyers or
researchers just show up for work and expect to have
spectacular performances without ever observing some
experienced professionals
How do you make it a practice to benefit in life by using
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The first step is your willingness to learn from
other people’s experiences and change in order to
grow and remain relevant in what you do. If you don’t
change as times change, then you are changed. You can
never have progress without change. It’s a tragedy to
let the fear of doing something different shackle your
future by stifling your growth.
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Have top notch clarity on what you need to learn.
It is a waste of your time and that of the “guru” you
want to learn from if you met with him or her and you
had not taken the time to prepare specific questions.
It’s frustrating and you are not likely to be given
another chance. Investing time to think and put your
questions in perspective will provide the opportunity
to have several items that have direct impact on your
goals addressed.
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Have an open mind. It is amazing to find a
solution for a challenge you are going through from a
source you didn’t expect. I have attended conferences
only to get practical tips that take my business or
life to new heights, from one of the other attendees
and nothing from the featured presenters.
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Know that you don’t have forever to learn
everything you need through costly trail and error.
In 1996, I learned the steps one needs to get a
regular column in newspapers and magazines. It was
written by someone who had done it for years. Within a
relatively short time I was a regular columnist. There
are endless stories of successful people in many areas
of life and all attribute their success to what they
learned from others.
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Develop the courage to say, “I need help” and do so
before you are discouraged beyond recovery. It
takes a strong person to ask for help. What happens if
we don’t ask? When I was a sophomore in high school in
Kenya, I helped a teacher carry a gas cylinder from a
bus station to his house. His wife was so thankful she
gave me a cake. I had never seen a cake like that.
Without hesitation, I just put the cake into my mouth
and started chewing, only to find that the cake was
wrapped with a paper that had to be removed before
eating. Failing in your goals because you didn’t ask
for help is worse than eating a piece of paper
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Put what you learned into practice. If you have
knowledge on something but you don’t put it into
action you are no better than someone who doesn’t have
the knowledge.
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Inspiring
Productivity With Stories and Metaphors |
“The best leaders…almost without
exception and at every level, are master users of stories and
symbols.” Tom Peters
When:
31st
January 9:00-12:00 (noon) |
Where:
Boise
Chamber of Commerce Conference Room |
Who
to attend: Leaders, managers,
supervisors, team
leaders,
trainers, counselors, pastors and
parents |
Instructor:
Dr.
Vincent Muli Kituku, President/founder of
Kituku
& Associates |
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This workshop will equip participants with
practical strategies on: |
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The 9 key elements
of inspiring productivity with metaphors/stories |
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5 must-know benefits
of using metaphors for effective learning |
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4 effective ways of
emphasizing your organization’s ethics with
metaphors/stories |
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The Be-MISH strategy
that gets you paid for your expertise and speaking
skills |
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5 styles that employees use to solve
conflicts |
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11 approaches on how
to use metaphors/stories for win-win resolutions |
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6 essential elements on how using
metaphors/stories help employees turn failed projects
into success |
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10 ways that metaphors/stories build
common ground for diverse teams to thrive |
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Call 472-5200
or visit
www.boisechamber.org for registrations |
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This same presentation will be featured at Training
2007 Conference & Expo at Disney’s Coronado Springs Resort in
Orlando, Florida. The Conference and Expo take place February 26-28
with pre-conference certificate programs scheduled Friday, February
23 through Sunday, February 25.
The workshop # is 712, Inspiring Productivity with Stories and
Metaphors
When:
02/28/07, 09:45 AM-10:45 AM |
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for information for other seminars
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for Achievers by Dr. Kituku ($5 value),
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It seems change happens before we learn about it and can
adjust to what has just changed. You purchase new software and
before you become comfortable with it, a newer version enters
the market. For example the Idaho Statesman was sold by
Gannett to Knight-Ridder Newspapers in August 2005 only to be
sold to McClatchy Newspapers in August of 2006.
In the late 80s, I used to pay $12 to speak with my parents,
in Kenya for three minutes. I would have paid $240 to speak
for 60 minutes. In the last five years, a $5 calling allows me
to speak for over 60 minutes, if I call landline.
What has caught most of us unawares is how fast the world is
no longer “a small world” but a small village I used to call
someone (not the operator who connected my calls), inform
him/her when I was to call my parents and hope that the
information would reach them so they can be at the telephone
booth. Cell phones have solved that problem.
Change occurs with or without our approval or participation.
Any efforts to resist the perpetual motion of change is like
driving in a dead-end street—you run out of room to move
ahead, and it may be hard to back-up. Workplace change has
been hard as organizations keep reshaping to fit in a speedily
changing world. The pain has come in the form of damaged
careers, lost loyalty to organizations and distrust of
decision makers.
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Be Flexible: The
forces, economic, political and social dynamics
thrusting change to us are beyond an individual’s to
stop change from happening. Being flexible and quick
to adjust to change is the currency we need instead of
mourning on what we can’t control. Ability to change
is a personal responsibility.
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Be Wholly Committed:
You have to learn to commit 100% of your skills,
experiences and knowledge to get the job done. This is
not being loyal to an employer but being mindful of
what will keep you marketable. It enables you to
utilize your full potential and make you a valuable
resource.
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Own What You Do.
Until one owns what he/she does, 100% commitment is
dream hard to turn into reality. In whatever you do,
you can help cut costs. You can find ways to improve
customer service or increase productivity. Think and
act as if you are self-employed with no self imposed
restrictions on what you do for which department. You
will grow faster and become more valuable. Just make a
difference.
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Broaden Your Saleable
Package: The only way you can protect your
career and growth is by adding value to your package
of knowledge and skills. It is a career-catastrophic
move to stop learning. Your marketability entirely
depends your choice to consciously update your resume,
gain new skills and stayed alert on what's going on in
your industry. Ian Johnson, the star running back of
Boise State football team said, “When you are tackled,
keep moving forward.”
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Think Customer Service:
We all work for customers. Customers pay our
salaries. The only job security is that customers
purchase our products and/or services. We protect our
jobs when we provider better products and/or services.
Stay close to customers so that you can monitor their
needs and expectations. Deliver better products and/or
services than anyone else and you won't have to worry
about competition.
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Be In-charge of Your Attitude.
If you cannot be the CEO of your attitude, morale and
motivation, you have surrendered the most basic
attribute of life no one else can be responsible for.
Your attitude towards life, change and how things
ought to be is the single most important factor that
will determine your productivity, marketability and
personal growth. Never blame anyone else for your
attitude, growth and ability. Accept the
responsibility to solve problems instead of wasting
time finding some to blame.
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Before you read what you will learn or the dates and times for
the last seminar of 2006, take a moment and read what Clay
Corner, a participant in the last seminar said. Here it is:
“Hi Vincent,
I just wanted to share with you how blessed I was this week by
your seminar. The difference between Wednesday and today is
that I now know:
1. That it is OK to get paid to speak
2. How to understand and engage my audience to create amazing
results
3. How to market my services 24 hours per day
Thank you. It was worth a fortune.
I gladly committed to the next level of training and look
forward to learning and applying all that I can. Just to let
you know, I have received a bargain and would have easily paid
twice or more of this amount or more for your services.”
Just a note—Clay is an accomplished national consultant
with years of training in public speaking.
Dear fellow speaker, what do you make of a case like Jennifer
Christiano’s. Jennifer got results from what she learned
immediately. She attended the seminar and in three business
days (seminar ended on Saturday), Jennifer appeared in the
Idaho Statesman (100% free of charge!). In addition to the
description of her accomplishments and services, her picture
was also printed. This was just one of the tips Jennifer
picked up from the seminar. Here is what she wrote after the
seminar: “Vincent,…it
was truly an experience that will enhance not only my career,
but also my life in general , even my marriage. The marketing
information you shared with us alone was worth many, many,
times the financial investment I made to attend…you are truly
an “Angel Along the Path” who is making a tremendous positive
difference in my life.”
“Dear Vincent,
I can't thank you enough for the opportunity to attend your "How
to Speak and Get Paid" advanced workshop this past week!
Your willingness to share your "tips" "strategies" and "must
knows" of professional speaking was invaluable. The stories
and examples made it obvious that every bit of advice had been
time-tested as you learned the business.
More important than just the practical information though, was
the sincere encouragement you always offer. It is a reminder
that success in a field we are passionate about must be shared
to make us truly successful. Thank you for your warmth and
wisdom!
All the Best - Always!”
Marsha McKinney, ARM,
Owner, Simple Safety
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There is one thing I guarantee
my students—you will learn practical tips that will allow you
to propel your fulfillment (success is not only elusive but
also very deceiving) into new heights. You will live
consciously aware of why you do what you do, the impact it has
on the lives of other people’s professions or personal
endeavors and the tangible and intangible rewards you derive.
Further, you will learn how to speak so that people want to
hear you and pay (very well) for your words. The second part
is to teach you how to let people know what you do faster
without you investing thousands of dollars. In fact, I teach
participants how to market with a zero budget…that is where I
started and still use it.
NOW here is information about the seminar. We have
about 40% of the participants already registered. DO NOT
WAIT!
This course is designed for participants who want to get paid
as professional speakers/trainers or consultants. You will not
only learn your speaking strengths, but also how to make them
financially profitable. Not everyone QUALIFIES for this
course. It is for professionals who are want to make a SIX
figure income, and have fun doing it.
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When: |
February
1st 5:30- 9:30pm (Thurs.) |
February
2nd 5:30-9:30pm (Fri.) |
February
3rd 9:00am-4:00pm (Sat) |
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Where: |
The Waterfront Facility
3200 Lakeharbor Lane
Boise, Idaho |
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“If I went back to
college again, I’d concentrate on two areas:
learning to write and to speak before an
audience. Nothing in life is more important than
the ability to communicate effectively.”
Gerald R. Ford,
U.S. President. |
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How to create a platform image that
captivates audiences all the time |
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Top must know steps on how to make
each of your presentations memorable |
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Proven ways to motivate your
audience to want to listen, learn and act |
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Why and how to turn your fear of
public speaking into a rewarding possession |
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How to gather information and tailor
it to relate with your audience expectations
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Organizing your information for
maximum audience learning experience |
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How to use your uniqueness and
deliver presentations skillfully |
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What, why and when to use visual
aids and when not to |
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Must know tips that will help you
avoid presentation pitfalls |
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“Failure to
recognize possibilities is the most
dangerous and common mistake one can make.”
Mae Jemison,
Astronaut |
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Getting from unknown
to a celebrated and well paid speaker/trainer
or
consultant |
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9 proven ways to
market your business with minimum budget for maximum
returns |
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How to create a
dominance presence and derive rewards in a competitive
market |
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The Be-MISH strategy
that gets you paid for your expertise and speaking
skills |
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The 7 streams of income that keep
dollars flowing into your business |
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Strategies for
leveraging your services to add value for clients and
increase your fees |
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How to skyrocket your
profits and minimize your costs |
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Discounted
Rate information: |
$299/person
($279 if paid by January 19th) |
$279/person in groups
of 3 or 4
($259/person if paid by January
19th) |
$259/person
in groups of 5 or more
($239/person if paid by January
19th) |
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Your investment is $239 if you are a member of
Toastmasters International or work for
Not-for-Profit organization or you are a professional
in humanity related fields.
Yes, your investment for this turning point seminar is
$100 more (if you don’t take advantage of the early bird
discount) than the past rates. Relax! We added more
materials and time to take your imminent success to new
heights immediately. Try
taking these kinds of classes in other places like Florida
or California. You will pay a minimum of $995 in addition
to travel airfare, room and board costs (about another
$1,200).
Guarantee: 100% refund
(less $129 for administrative costs) if you are not
satisfied with Dr. Kituku’s presentation.
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TO REGISTER: |
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Call Toll free
1-888-685-1621 or
(208) 376-8724 |
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Mail a check or money
order to:
KITUKU & ASSOCIATES
P.O. Box 7152
Boise, Idaho 83707 |
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Cancellation terms: You can
transfer your registration to future workshops. You are guaranteed a
100% refund if you cancel your registration 45 days before the day
of the seminar. A $129 administrative fee will be subtracted from
your registration amount if cancellation occurs between 44 days and
two weeks before the seminar. There is no refund if cancellation
occurs within 14 days before the seminar. |
Guarantee: You will not be disappointed!
Visit
www.howtospeakandgetpaid.com
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As a leader, trainer, teacher or spiritual mentor, you want
your audience to be informed, riveted and remember what they
learned. I strive to create a positive and inclusive learning
environment where each individual can participate and connect
their past, present and the desired future. I do this with
stories. Storytelling is not only my strongest presentation
skill, it is my business’s life thread. The ability to touch
listeners’ hearts and mind with stories is a powerful
uniqueness that separates great speakers from the rest.
Here is an example:
Once
upon a time, there was an ancient Far East community with a
unique practice. Elderly folks, when about to die, were picked
up and carried to the top of a hill surrounded by a thick
forest. The top was relatively flat and had little vegetation.
There, the elderly folks passed on in peace and tranquility.
In
the community lived a young man who was an only child. His
father had died. One day, he noticed that his elderly mother
was failing in health. So he prepared to carry her to the top
of the hill.
The agony of parting weighed heavily on him. As he carried her
along, he occasionally felt something pull him back and then
release suddenly. After a while, he looked behind to find out
what was pulling him back. He was surprised beyond
comprehension.
His
mother was pulling branches off trees and leaving them along
the
path.
He
could not discern what this meant: A customary practice he
didn’t know? Or something significant only to his mother?
But he knew that he had to learn the meaning of this peculiar
practice so that he could pass it along to his own children.
He
asked her why she was leaving branches along the path. His
mother, already weak and now fatigued by the journey, with
faint voice said, “Son, when you leave me on top of the hill,
I won’t need directions any more. However, you will need to
find your way home. I have left those branches to help you
find the path.”
With
that he finished the rest of the journey, said his sad
farewell, left his mother atop the hill and sorrowfully walked
home, guided by the broken branches in the path.
Few eyes are still dry when I finish this story. I build
my speech on how each of us need to find out the branches that
will help us live a life of fulfillment along our own paths.
Here are a few, but most important branches. Because this
story is too emotional, I tell a personal experience that
moves my teary audience to laughter.
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We
discuss self-acceptance. Acceptance of oneself uniqueness
regardless
of
culture, gender, social status, educational background,
ethnicity or any
other
narrowing identity is a beginning point. Participants learn
how each is
creatively
created to be creative in a way no other person can live, act
or
be
them. One’s uniqueness should enrich the world differently
from anybody
else.
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Relationships: |
In
this we discuss spiritual, professional and community related
relationship,
how
we can enrich them as we derive inspiration, support and
guidance in
the
professional and personal path. Relationships provide the
inward
tranquility
and ensure our uniqueness an environment in which to soar,
to
be beneficial to all.
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Overcoming Obstacles: |
To
be successful spiritually, professionally, emotionally or in
relationships,
one
has to learn to move from a drawback (may it be loss of a job,
death of
loved
ones, broken relationship, unfulfilled dreams) with
enthusiasm,
determination,
new vision and restored hope. Past failures or loses should
be
a point of reference but NEVER anyone’s residency.
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Creating Change: |
At
this time, I have one objective: to make sure that my
participants will
change
to better their lives using what they have already. (I tell a
story of
when
I bought a car with an “A/C” button. I never pressed it on for
years
because
I had learned in African that A/C means alternating current.
Then
one
day a family friend convinced my to push it…and life changed).
Participants
identify their own “un-pressed” professional and personal
“A/Cs.”
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The Dash on the Stone:
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This
is the conclusion for my speech, but the beginning of my
audience’s
life
after the speech. I want to tie in all my points with my
audience’s
immortality.
I ask my audience well known names like, the first president
of
the
United States of America. Then I ask when those famous people
were
born
or died. The room becomes quiet, and people turn to see if
there is
anyone
who might know the answers. No one does and the audience is
relieved
when I say, “I also don’t know.
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Then I say that a dash connects birth and death dates on grave
markers. It is what is within the dash that is important.
Participants leave the room projecting on how they can enrich
their dashes.
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If results are important to you, then Dr Vincent
Muli Kituku
is the speaker/trainer for your group.
Call (208)
376-8724, or email Vincent directly at
Vincent@kituku.com
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